MANILA, Philippines – A young lady took to social media her frustrations and disappointment towards her boyfriend who wanted her to abort their unborn child.
Kimberly Ong had had enough of her boyfriend, Andrew Buenviaje and finally called it quits after he refused to take responsibility for their baby. Ong admitted that she had hesitations in writing a open letter about their relationship but she couldn’t bear the thought of how selfish the man is.
Ong recounted in a lengthy post on Facebook how the man she loved cheated on her several times and still took him back. She said, “Tanga ko kasi ‘di ko kayang magalit ng tuluyan sa’yo.”
When things started going smoothly again between the couple, it was when Ong found out she was pregnant. Buenviaje tried to reason to her that they were not yet ready to raise a child and suggested to abort the baby.
Ong wrote, “Nung sinabi ko na, una mong bungad agad sakin is ipalaglag natin. ‘Di mo kaya. ‘Di pa natin kaya. Madami kang masasakit na salita. Halos ‘di mo din ako kinakausap nung nalaman mo na buntis ako kamo sabi mo para marealize ko ano ang tama. Tama ba sayo na pumatay? Sabi mo wala tayo papatayin kasi wala pang soul at heartbeat.”
At that time, the lady was already three months pregnant.
The brave woman decided to leave her lover and chose to bear their baby. Ong said, “Mahal kita pero mas mahal ko anak ko. Ngayon mag isa kong hinaharap tong paghihirap ko.”
She wrote a goodbye message to her now ex-boyfriend saying, “Andrew Buenviaje, Salamat nalang sa memories. Akala ko ikaw na ang taong makakasama ko, hindi pala. Ikaw pala ang kakamuhian kong tao sa buong buhay ko. Hindi ka kamahal mahal. Minahal kita ng sobra pero malala ka. Sobrang lala mong tao. Sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sayo nakalimutan ko ng mahalin sarili ko.”
The post has gone viral with over 130,000 shares as of press time.
Chat messages
Along with the post are a series of screenshots of the couples’ conversation. It shows Buenviaje explaining that he is only looking forward to a good future, something that they cannot give to their child if they decide to keep it.
One message from Buenviaje said, “Friends mo what would they think? Sa office nga di mo maayos ang trabaho mo. You think you could give your child a good future with that? While wala pa siyang buhay, soul, Kim… Gawin mo na lahat.”
At one point, the young man even told Ong, “Kung wala yang baby, di kita iiwan.”
Buenviaje deactivates account
Andrew Buenviaje already deactivated his Facebook account. A seemingly fake account with the same name has been posting alleged screenshots from the real Buenviaje’s account. The posts has has yet to be verified but one post stated, “Again si Kim ang may kasalanan nun. Inaalala ko lang ‘yung bata kaya gusto ko ipalaglag. Mga wala kayong utak.”
— Sally, The Summit Express
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| Kimberly Ong wrote a lengthy post about her former boyfriend’s wish to abort their baby | Photo Courtesy: Facebook/ Kimberly Ong |
Kimberly Ong had had enough of her boyfriend, Andrew Buenviaje and finally called it quits after he refused to take responsibility for their baby. Ong admitted that she had hesitations in writing a open letter about their relationship but she couldn’t bear the thought of how selfish the man is.
Ong recounted in a lengthy post on Facebook how the man she loved cheated on her several times and still took him back. She said, “Tanga ko kasi ‘di ko kayang magalit ng tuluyan sa’yo.”
When things started going smoothly again between the couple, it was when Ong found out she was pregnant. Buenviaje tried to reason to her that they were not yet ready to raise a child and suggested to abort the baby.
Ong wrote, “Nung sinabi ko na, una mong bungad agad sakin is ipalaglag natin. ‘Di mo kaya. ‘Di pa natin kaya. Madami kang masasakit na salita. Halos ‘di mo din ako kinakausap nung nalaman mo na buntis ako kamo sabi mo para marealize ko ano ang tama. Tama ba sayo na pumatay? Sabi mo wala tayo papatayin kasi wala pang soul at heartbeat.”
At that time, the lady was already three months pregnant.
The brave woman decided to leave her lover and chose to bear their baby. Ong said, “Mahal kita pero mas mahal ko anak ko. Ngayon mag isa kong hinaharap tong paghihirap ko.”
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| Andrew Buenviaje said they could not give their unborn child a better future | Photo Courtesy: Facebook/Kimberly Ong |
She wrote a goodbye message to her now ex-boyfriend saying, “Andrew Buenviaje, Salamat nalang sa memories. Akala ko ikaw na ang taong makakasama ko, hindi pala. Ikaw pala ang kakamuhian kong tao sa buong buhay ko. Hindi ka kamahal mahal. Minahal kita ng sobra pero malala ka. Sobrang lala mong tao. Sa sobrang pagmamahal ko sayo nakalimutan ko ng mahalin sarili ko.”
The post has gone viral with over 130,000 shares as of press time.
Chat messages
Along with the post are a series of screenshots of the couples’ conversation. It shows Buenviaje explaining that he is only looking forward to a good future, something that they cannot give to their child if they decide to keep it.
One message from Buenviaje said, “Friends mo what would they think? Sa office nga di mo maayos ang trabaho mo. You think you could give your child a good future with that? While wala pa siyang buhay, soul, Kim… Gawin mo na lahat.”
At one point, the young man even told Ong, “Kung wala yang baby, di kita iiwan.”
Buenviaje deactivates account
Andrew Buenviaje already deactivated his Facebook account. A seemingly fake account with the same name has been posting alleged screenshots from the real Buenviaje’s account. The posts has has yet to be verified but one post stated, “Again si Kim ang may kasalanan nun. Inaalala ko lang ‘yung bata kaya gusto ko ipalaglag. Mga wala kayong utak.”
— Sally, The Summit Express
